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SEXUAL
ABUSE PREVENTION & INTERVENTION:::
SEXUAL
abuse is a destroyer of hope, aspiration and dreams. It
can happen to any child, male or female and within the walls
of the school and outside the premises of the school.
Sometimes these abusers are within the school confines,
trusted by parent, school owners and committees. Some other
times they are outside the perimeter of the schools targeting
and carrying out their nefarious activities on innocent
children and adolescents.
I must bring into the pictures the groomers; they are the
ones that take the time to plan their crime over years.
They start out every friendly to these children, in turn
earning their trust. Instructing them on keeping friendly
secrets and turning them into their properties. They scare
these children at home stage, threaten them and make them
loose total sense of dignity and innocence. These categories
of people are all enemies to the goal and vision of your
schools. They are enemies to the future of the world. It
is a very serious crime against the child and community
and it is best prevented than managed.
In line with our objective of ensuring the solid future
of these children entrusted in our hands, one of the important
things is to make sure that our schools are safe, systems
are put in place systems that will ensure we guarantee the
complete innocence of our pupils until it is appropriate
for them to learn about sex in the right way.
In a recent study conducted in one teaching Lagos Hospital,
a child may brought in every week for medical attention
as a result of sexual abuse in the hands of trusted people.
Most times it has gone on for long before someone found
out. That is how bad it is!
Every child will have some level of contact with formal
education in a school in our country, so that is where I
believe we can start from.

OUR
WORKSHOP DISCUSSES
1. Types of sexual abuse of children
2. Preventing and spotting sexual abuse in schools
3. Effect of sexual abuse on children
4. Management of the abuse child (medical)
5. How schools functionaries can understand and deal with
the abused child
6. Legal implications of sexual abuse in schools and available
legislation on sexual abuse of children in Nigeria.
7. Teaching defense technique for pupils
8. Where and how to access help in Nigeria
9. Life after abuse of pupils
10. The South African experience.
We are also proposing a bill, which will establish an organization
to oversee the following;
1. All student are taught about spotting abusers/abusive
behaviour and preventing themselves from been abused.
2. There are clear, discrete laid down procedures of reporting
abuse in schools
3. All workers that come in contact with children (anybody
under 18) must obtain clearance from above organization
similar to a CRB check in the U.K
4. That government introduces stiffer penalties for abusers
5. The organization to be established shall have a desk
at every police station in Lagos, manned by competent in
hands investigation abuses. Considering the nature of the
children, this desk will have to be handled by experts in
child interrogation.
6. That the above organization shall carry out pre-employment
check for every one that comes across a child in the course
of their duties. That pre-employment check will be the extent
where there is reasonable assurance that persons are safe
with children of both sexes.
7. That everyone that comes in contact with a child in the
course of their work will have to keep their employment
record with the organization and update such records yearly.
All employment gaps must be explained.
8. That the organization shall keep records and report cases
of abuse to the right authorities for prosecution of offenders.
Record keeping might include finger printing.
9. That the organization shall have special units that will
deliver knowledge to schools and the society on sexual abuse
of children.
10. That the organization shall have branches in every local
government and local development areas to oversee the topic
in issue.
11. That records of convicted abusers can be accessed by
the public
12. The organization shall be funded privately.
13. That the management of the organization shall be independent
Contact
U.K Office :::
Britannic House, 279 Chaterlands Avenue, Hull,HU5 4DS. United Kingdom.
Tel: +441482801766
Nigeria Office :::
Suite D5 Gateway Hotel, Otta, Ogun state. Nigeria.
Tel: 234(1)8703046
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